What do you think of this idea for the songs...?

I know exactly what you mean I've thought about that too. I would say pick 1 song for your first dance that the both of you like and agree on. Then maybe after that play pistol and maybe just the bridal party get up there and dance with the 2 of you. If you wanted to do a 3rd song I would say maybe do it a little later in the night from you to him. It might be more special b/c not everyone would know that you picked it for him except him. Also, I really love when they play "time of my life" as the very very very last dance at a wedding! I think its so cute.