Need relationship advice really badly please help..!!?

this is one of those. weigh the pros and cons. If this relationship is worth saving and has positive future for you and your child then I would lay down the cards. If this man is mean and abusive and is not healthy for you or your babys future then kicked to the curb. I am sure there are programs, shelters and many other outlets that can help. It is best to start over than to remain in darkness. good luck to you.